Ian goes “pick which one, an apple or banana?”
I said why
“Just pick!!”
Okay, a banana.
“Ok mommy, go get me a banana.”
He definitely had a nicer way of asking.
sometimes as an adult you have to decide “this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way” & stand on it. rather that be family, a relationship or a friendship
my problem is i have delayed reactions. i don’t fully take into account how someone did me until after the fact when i actually put some thought into it and really dissect the situation..
i can’t think of a single breakup (friendship, romantic or even familial) that didn’t come with some sort of relief for me. even where there was heartache, the relief mattered so much that it got me through. this will never be a problem for me again, thank God type relief.
i don't think people understand how hard it is when your toxic trait is self isolation + avoidance, everybody instantly think you're ignoring them but you're just struggling to find peace
Sometimes, as an adult, you have to decide “this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way” & stand on it. Whether it’s family, a relationship, or a friendship.