i am a morning person but my wife is not, she has never been, she has always been horrified at the fact that i am a morning person, HOWEVER yesterday we took our puppy for a walk in the morning and when we got back she said ‘oh my god that was liberating’ she finally gets it
I think people have a very tough time understanding that victims of a nonconsensual encounter offffften try to convince themselves for a long time that it was consensual before arriving to the conclusion that they were violated. It's too complicated for them to understand
I'm in love with this quote
"if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior"
exactly this, i think a lot of things people can come back from but raping somebody is something that i truly believe you just can’t. it is so deeply evil and if you’re capable of something like that, you’re so far beyond the point of being helped
rehabilitation to me means that the person who caused harm fully understands and feels the appropriate amount of remorse for their actions. and if rapists did that, the only path forward for them would be to blow their shit smooth off so do with that what you will
Too many people would fly to Mars before they sat with themself in silence and looked at who they actually are. The answers aren’t out there baby. The call is coming from inside the house.
october is OCD awareness month. i wish for people to educate themselves on OCD and to understand that it is a debilitating mental health disorder. it isn’t just being organised and clean. OCD has taken years of my life from me and i wish people knew how awful it really is.
this. it is rarely just the narcissist that you end up having to cut out of your life, the majority of the time you end up loosing people that you genuinely never wanted too
Once you cut a narcissist out of your life, their next circle may only know you as the “bad person” in their version of events. That’s what happens when someone needs to stay the victim in every story.