Ronaldo should have retired in 2018. His fans could have at least pushed the "had he continued, he‘d have won more Ballon d‘Ors and World Cups than Messi" gimmick but he preferred to ride camels
This is one of the most common and painful mistakes we make in relationships. You love deeply, loudly, and sacrificially. You give your time, your attention, your energy, your heart. And then you expect your partner to love you exactly the same way.
When they do not, you feel unloved. Not because they are not loving you, but because they are not loving you in your language. The truth is, people love differently. Some people show love through acts of service. Others through words of affirmation. Some through physical touch. Others through quality time or gifts. If you measure their love by your own standard, you will always find them lacking.
Love is not a mirror. It does not have to reflect your exact expression to be real. Your partner may not write you long paragraphs, but they may show up every single day. They may not buy extravagant gifts, but they may fix things around the house without being asked. They may not say "I love you" a hundred times, but they may listen to you vent for an hour without interrupting.
That is still love. It just looks different.The danger of measuring someone's love by your own is that you will overlook genuine care while chasing a fantasy version of romance that only exists in your head. You will become bitter. They will become exhausted. And the relationship will crumble not from lack of love, but from lack of understanding.
Instead of measuring, learn. Learn how your partner loves. Learn what makes them feel loved. And learn to recognise love even when it does not wear your favourite colour. Your partner is not you. That is not a flaw. That is the point.
@shavnyuy I understand your point and I agree with you. My response was only to the medieval and 13th century structures you mentioned,I guess I didn't just communicate it properly.
I think my biggest red flag is that i never really know how to talk about my feelings. when i'm going through something, i tendok to stop talking to everyone until i feel okay again. i have a lot of conversations with myself in my head about how i feel, and is explain it so well there - but getting it to actually come out of my mouth is so hard. once i feel okay, i'll start communicating again as if nothing happened. it's not that i'm being distant with you; i just process things better when i'm alone.
70% of fans who actually sit down and watch full 90 minute matches week after week usually lean toward Lionel Messi because they are watching the entire canvas of the game, not just the final touch.
Messi is a complete footballing ecosystem. Elite playmaker, elite tempo-controller, elite creator, elite finisher. He dictates the rhythm of matches and manipulates space at a level casual viewers genuinely do not understand.
Cristiano Ronaldo, meanwhile, built the greatest personal sports brand ever created. His game is perfectly designed for the social media era: towering headers, dramatic celebrations, physique, clutch moments, motivational edits, viral clips. For people who mainly consume football through TikTok highlights, stat graphics, and Instagram reels, Ronaldo naturally feels like the ultimate protagonist.
That is why most casual fans usually choose Ronaldo while most football purists choose Messi.
One is the executive finisher of a system. The other is the entire system itself.
The closer somebody watches actual football beyond clips and PR , the harder it becomes to ignore Messi’s organic footballing genius over Ronaldo’s manufactured perfection.
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I will keep it simple,I will use it to capture the beautiful scenery of my country which is Nigeria and the vlog of my daily activities.