@AishaYesufu Nigerians are NOT ready yet..
When they are ready they will STOP worshipping corrupt people and take action.
Corruption is a life destroyer and breed terrorist..
Europeans citizens knows how to dealt with corrupt people as we can see here....
Agba I was born in the Shehu Shagari era. I saw receipts my father used to buy baby milk for me as a baby. He was working with a Construction company (Roads Nigeria Sokoto) as a Mechanical Engineer.
So records were his thing because you need those receipts to collect your expenses back from the company. I saw receipts of my school fees being #12.00 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Agba I grew up seeing my father drive 504 saloon, 504 Station Wagon, Peugeot 505 Evolution Saloon car. I attended a Nursery school owned by Germans and attended the same Primary School with the children of successive Sokoto State Military Administrators (Federal Govt College Staff Primary School Sokoto). It was an Elite kids school.
Agba I enjoyed life as a kid growing up so I can tell when life was REALLY GOOD in Nigeria.
Chellarams Plc was our shopping malls / supermarket then, if your parents were up to it. Agba there was a time life was sweet in Nigeria.
I wish I could give my own children 1/10 of the quality of life I enjoyed at their age today. It's sad what I'm seeing today in Nigeria.
Young people have No idea when a carton of Milk was sold for #20 in Nigeria. When #20 was big money in Nigeria. I was raised in that era as a kid Sir.
The life we live in Nigeria today is a poor quality of life and I'm sad for the youths of today because their future is bleak in Nigeria unless they fight for the right leadership.
The battered economy can be reversed, the insecurity can be reversed, the societal decadence can be reversed, ONLY if we have the right leaders in power.
Young Nigerians, please the time to fight for your future is NOW. All hope is not lost but it can become lost if this administration continues in 2027.
Act Now! Don't sit on the fence, don't be indifferent, fight for your futures. Don't sell your votes to the highest bidder.
Your future is in your hands. Vote Right for your OWN future!!!
@jon_d_doe I feel so sorry for this country and it is because the people are still blind and running after rice and 10,000 naira doing campaigns for bad leaders lnstead of them to sit and reason well like you just did and make a straight and tough decision to vote out bad leaders.
Politics is not what I am known for.
I am an authority when it comes to relationships or marriages.
But political decisions or choices affect leadership.
And when leadership is poor, men and women are less interested in getting married and raising a family.
Or some would use it as an excuse to steal, harm others or go into fraud.
I have looked at all the presidential candidates that we have today, and I see that potential in the persons of Peter Obi and Rabiu Kwankwaso.
I won't always discuss politics because I don't like it, and it creates enemies unnecessarily.
But I have seen a high level of poverty and shock in the numbers of persons that have been begging for money to survive from close families and friends.
And I know it's because of our economy.
An economy led by President Tinubu.
I have seen wives lose their husbands in a large scale like never seen before due to insecurity.
I have seen mothers and wives decide to prostitute themselves because they have to feed their children.
I have seen parents enable their children to go into fraud and prostitution because of our harsh economy.
I cannot continue to teach people on how to maintain a healthy relationship or marriage, while their pockets cannot sustain it and their children are hungry.
I want to promote someone that gives hope to the ordinary Nigerians and has a track record.
Do not be distracted by my political posts in recent times.
I am doing it because I am concerned with our future.
The suffering is too much for a country as rich as Nigeria.
And we have leaders who do not show empathy.
Rather, they politicize the level of insecurity and massive corruption as a political witch-hunt.
Greed and quest for power is the bane.
Poverty weaponization is the catalyst.
Religion and tribe are the result.
You young Nigerians must see these things for what they are.
Your mates in countries where they have elected good politicians are getting married very early and raising their families.
But you're still begging for recharge card, doing yahoo and olosho on tik tok and IG.
This is not the life that was promised to you by these greedy politicians.
Take back your country.
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@Ahmprecious2@jon_d_doe@instablog9ja No he simply want you to enjoy yourself in peace until you have come to your senses that you are getting old and need to rethink and be serious with your life
Have you all finished reading the married man's DM on the back up page?
His story reminded me of an inlaw who unfortunately passed on because of the type of wife that he married.
He was 45. He was asthmatic and had high blood pressure, which he had been managing even before he married her. This man did all he could to explain to his wife that her nagging was always getting to him, but she didn't listen.
On the day he died, he called his brothers and sisters:
"I have not been feeling well, the doctor adviced me to take a bed rest. But my wife has not been giving me peace. If I die, please know that she killed me, because the way I feel right now, I may not see tomorrow".
They called his wife and pleaded with her to allow him to rest.
A few hours later, the wife called to say that she was on her way to the hospital with him, and that he wasn't breathing well and was too weak.
He died at the hospital few hours later, leaving behind a son and the pregnant wife at the time.
The wife started shedding crocodile tears.
Family members accepted their painful loss and buried their brother. The wife gave birth a few months later, and after a few weeks, abandoned the two children with the family in the village.
She went to the city, sold his car and properties, and left for another state.
A few months later, she returned to pick up the two children to God knows where.
No one has seen those kids or set eyes on the "widow." Even when the family offered to take responsibility for the children, she and her family refused.
I have left out some details from this story for obvious reasons.
I want to reiterate, it is very important for you, regardless of gender, to choose someone who is kind.
Kindness is one of the three pillars of marriage.
If you marry an unkind spouse, they'll always look out for themselves first, before considering you.
And it is worse if the unkind person is the wife.
Because the wife runs the home.
If she's selfish and greedy, nothing you do for her would either be enough or appreciated.
Nagging would always want to drive you insane, and you may not live long.
Because instead of your wife to be supportive, she would be sabotaging your efforts and milking you dry until nothing is left to milk.
Then she would frustrate your life and still act like the victim.
This is why I have been insisting that you, young people, should find ways to cohabit.
A significant number of the issues you'd experience in marriage, cohabiting would give you the opportunity to see them first hand, and decide if this is truly what you want to live with for the rest of your life.
These stories that I share are not fictional stories.
They're people's experiences, and we are privileged to be reading them.
The people behind those stories are humans like you and me.
Do you think that if they had the power to see their future, they would have made such mistakes in the beginning?
Learn from them and save yourself from having to come to my DM in the future.
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@jon_d_doe @HenryIsong6572 I'll be waiting for the day you will say my name too in recognition too Agba because I have been following you for over 5years
If you have a male friend that has refused to reduce the rate at which he visits you after you marry your wife, to the extent that he doesn't mind passing the night.
He's most likely coming to visit your wife.
Not you.
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