Generosity is a character trait, not a transaction. The moment you give with the expectation of getting something back, it stops being generosity and starts being an investment.
Not everyone got the memo that they owe you returns.
Not everyone will like you, and that is perfectly fine. You were not created to be everybody's cup of tea. The few who genuinely do will never need convincing. Those are the ones that matter.
People make time for what matters to them. The person with back-to-back meetings still replies to certain messages within seconds. The friend who is "too busy" still showed up to someone else's event. It is never about the hours in the day. It's your rank on their priority list.
@instablog9ja Some guys don't have shame.
A lady who will say yes, all signs would be seen by the bf beforehand
However, I am still seeking reasons to propose in an open space.
Some ladies have never knelt for their guy, before.
Shameless individual.
@JDShuttlesworth This made me remember when I once had it, I was frozen inside out and started praying.
Those white folks beside me were looking at me like "what's this guy doing".
However, I got home and asked ChatGPT "says it's normal."
Normal or Not, we need to pray.
@DanielRegha What you said is logically true, but this is not mathematics.
Daniel, when it comes to a man as the head of the home, Pastor Enenche is right.
However, given the situation, a good wife should know that she is supposed to help.
You are the head for a reason.
Do it your way.