Out of respect PLEASEEEE do not tell me about people that I am no longer in contact with. I do not care about them, what they do is none of my business. I have my own life and I am very happy with where I am.
Unfortunately, when it comes to me, EVERYTHING IS THAT DEEP! Everything IS that serious. & yes I do take EVERYTHING PERSONAL. Find somebody to play with!
i think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this and only thinking about others.
normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you. giving you all of the right words, but none of the right actions is called manipulation. when a person wants to be with you, they prove it.