it’s the same conversations surrounding black women and hair. I’ve never heard anyone talk about this shit irl. you not walking up to a black girl and grilling her about having boho braids… so stop doing it online like stfu please
There are NUANCED convos to be had about BW & our relationship to our hair. But some of y’all don’t want to have those convos in good faith & w/ empathy. Y’all just want to feign superiority. Now y’all saying wearing braids is rooted in hatred of our hair?
Then y’all saying people who wear boho/french curl braids hate themselves b/c they incorporate curly/wavy hair. Y’all so “pro natural hair” that you sound dumb asf & are actually discouraging the people you’re trying to encourage to build a better relationship w/ their hair.