Good people have high levels of empathy, but once that empathy is exhausted, they switch to a state of objective observation. They see you for exactly who you are, without the filter of their love. This is why their anger feels so cold, it is the absence of the warmth you took for granted
I'm an eldest daughter which means I'm automatically irritated by your incompetence because l was never given room to be imcompetent. I won't be elaborating. The daughters who know get it.
my therapist said “people who struggle with anxiety & depression can’t remember a lot, bc they're too busy focusing on how to get through each moment so they don t actually experience what is happening to them, causing them to not form the memory they were supposed to” felt that.
grace van patten is a once-in-a-lifetime talent because you can feel the exact moment lucy snaps and how completely she’s lost herself. nothing reaches her anymore. she’s gone. give this woman every award
When a woman makes her own money, is educated, takes care of herself, and builds her own life, the only thing a man brings to the table is how he treats her. Let that sink in.
before you go to bed tonight, remember this. you gonna be okay. you gonna figure it out. everything don't gotta make sense right now for it to still work out later. your heart gonna get back right, your mind gonna get clearer and you gonna find what really fit you.
I’m passing the phone to the person who’s about to have a life-changing year and receive everything they’ve dreamed of. A year filled with success, opportunity, and grace everywhere you go.
uncommon advice:
if you don’t know what to pursue in life right now. pursue yourself. pursue becoming the healthiest, happiest, most healed, most present, most confident version of yourself. then the right path will reveal itself.