i’d rather share a table with the poor, lesbians, gay men, trans people, sex workers, and everyone society calls “undeserving” than spend my life around people whose faith has become an excuse for arrogance and condemnation.
reading all these discussions about patriarchy reminds me of how i used to wonder why some girls are so focused on finding a bf & i think a lot of it is socially constructed cus growing up we’re asked, “have you found a bf yet?" as if that's the measure of a woman's success.
“Nobody is coming to save you” but your day literally gets better after you consume art made by other people. You hang w friends & you’re no longer suicidal, even if just for a few minutes. They’re lying to you about the significance of community. People are saving you EVERYDAY!
sedih tau liat masih banyak perempuan yg beli pembalut reject, makeup yang shady, karena mereka dipaksa BUTUH in this society and that’s the only thing they can afford, trus orang-orang yang bisa afford lebih malah lebih milih shaming, we’re part of the system tau
Kenapa reaksi orang2 auto offended ketika aku bilang kalo aku ga minat nikah? I mean, it's my own life though. Kenapa mereka yg takut kalo omonganku diiyain Tuhan?
As a child, i was shown many many marriage aspects that I found rather questionable and made me think that marriage is soo bs.
Well now perhaps I could agree to disagree, but I think marriage tradition is still so rooted in patriarchy
Also from someone who was growing up watching this tradition, 10 years old me was wondering, “why didn’t the groom wash up the bride’s foot too?” “why is she kneeling in front of everyone?”
as a kid growing up in javanese culture tiap ngeliat tradisi di pernikahan where the bride should wash up her husband foot it always itching me out??? why is she acting like his maid in their supposed big happy day????
saying “boobs bait” “soft porn”
"attention bait" simply because a woman exist with their body is VILE, disrespectful, misogynistic and disgusting btw no one deserves that kind of disrespect and dehumanization
gaada pelajaran ttg consent, menstruasi, pelecehan dan kekerasan seksual, body autonomy and privacy MALAH BEGINI yaAllah we really are so so so doomed as a nation