Senami💖

Faith| Hope| Love✨💫

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Papa Ajasco was right, cause Ojigbijigbijigbi fr omo 😭

[Senami💖 @temithefirstt]

May you never lose that part of yourself.

And may life give you plenty of reasons to be congratulated too. ❤️

[Senami💖 @temithefirstt]

Word of the day: Serial Congratulator

Origin: The emotionally secure side of the internet.

Meaning: One who knows that the absence of something in their own life does not stop them from acknowledging and celebrating its presence in someone else’s.

[Senami💖 @temithefirstt]

Are you a Serial Congratulator?

The friend who is always somewhere in the comments saying:

“Congratulationssss 😭❤️”

“So proud of you!”

“You deserve this!”

“My babyyyy! Finally!”

Even when you are still waiting for your own good news?

[Senami💖 @temithefirstt]

So before you conclude they’ve changed…

Before you create stories in your head…

Pause.

Give people the same grace you’d hope they’d give you.

[Senami💖 @temithefirstt]

Hear me out…

Sometimes, you need to decenter yourself and deal with that main character syndrome.

Life can happen to you and your friends at the same time.

Your friends are dealing with things too.

[Senami💖 @temithefirstt]

The difference is, not everybody processes difficult seasons the same way.

Some people take longer to open up.

Others carry their struggles quietly.

That doesn’t mean all is well with them.

[Senami💖 @temithefirstt]

Our testimonies should leave people talking about God’s goodness, not comparing lives or implying that those who died somehow mattered less.

At the end of the day, all the glory belongs to God.

[Senami💖 @temithefirstt]

As Christians, when we testify, the focus should always be on God, not ourselves.

One thing I’ve never really understood is when someone says, “Many are in the mortuary.”

What exactly do we mean by that?

[Senami💖 @temithefirstt]

Humility and compassion should always accompany our testimonies because someone listening may have just buried a loved one.

The same words that encourage one person could unintentionally deepen another person’s grief.