Building a Tech Community That Actually Changes Lives
In 2017, I started House of Tech Community with a simple idea: create a space where people don’t just talk about tech, but actually grow in it.
Today, the community has grown to 1,300+ active members on WhatsApp and continues to expand, but more importantly, it continues to make a real impact.
Over the past year, we hosted learning sessions across different stages of the tech journey in collaboration with vibrant tech communities like WebEvolvers (largely for Developers) and thehive (largely for Designers):
• July 2024 – Conversations on Forex, Web3, Bitcoin, Crypto and financial technology awareness
• September 8, 2024 – Beginner’s Guide to the Creative World
• September 29, 2024 – AI’s Impact on Employment: Opportunities vs Threats
• October to December 2024 – Hands-on Video Editing Training series
• November 10, 2024 – Social Media Marketing for SMEs
• November 24, 2024 – Overcoming LinkedIn Inferiority Complex: Winning Strategies for Techies
• December 22, 2024 – Crafting Winning CVs and Positioning for Job Opportunities
The goal has never been noise or hype. It has always been exposure, clarity and access. Members have improved portfolios, gained direction, asked better career questions and positioned themselves for real opportunities.
In 2026, we’re going back to fundamentals.
I will be leading a Basic Productivity Tools Training covering MS Word, PowerPoint, Excel and Canva, focused on workplace readiness for students and early professionals.
We will also host a Career in Data Analysis webinar featuring industry professionals to help beginners understand the path, skills and positioning required to break into the field.
House of Tech is proof that consistent community building compounds over time. You don’t need a massive audience to make an impact; you need commitment, structure and continuity.
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Dear SimbiNAlli,
One of the biggest mistakes people make before entering relationships or marriage is ignoring difficult conversations because “love is enough.” Love is important, but love alone cannot sustain a relationship where there is no alignment, honesty, communication, emotional maturity, or compatibility.
Recently, I listened to a conversation between two people discussing why a relationship ended, and one thing stood out clearly: both people may genuinely like each other, yet still be completely incompatible for marriage. That realization is painful, but very necessary.
Many people enter relationships hoping certain things will magically change after marriage. Some avoid important conversations because they are afraid of losing the relationship. Others pretend to agree with things they are not truly comfortable with just to keep the peace. But marriage has a way of exposing every hidden difference you ignored while dating.
Before you rush into marriage, ask deeper questions. Not just “Do I love this person?” but:
• Can we communicate honestly without fear?
• Are we emotionally compatible?
• Do we share similar values around intimacy, finances, faith, lifestyle, and family?
• Can we resolve conflict maturely?
• Are there unresolved patterns from previous relationships that may affect this one?
• Can this person openly express their needs, boundaries, expectations, and struggles?
One thing many people underestimate is sexual compatibility and communication around intimacy. Some people are very expressive and open about sex. Others are reserved, conservative, or uncomfortable discussing it. Neither side is necessarily wrong, but problems begin when people pretend during dating and hope things will somehow fix themselves after marriage.
If someone suddenly adopts a completely different lifestyle or value system from their past, ask questions respectfully and seek clarity instead of blindly assuming. Likewise, if someone has certain expectations in relationships, they should communicate them honestly from the beginning instead of hiding them to appear acceptable.
Another important lesson is this: never ignore patterns from a person’s past without understanding them properly. If someone had a previous relationship that ended painfully close to marriage, do not judge immediately, but do not ignore it either. Ask mature questions. Listen carefully. Sometimes people hide important details out of fear that the truth may scare you away.
This does not mean you should become suspicious of everyone. It simply means marriage is too important to enter blindly because of emotions, pressure, loneliness, beauty, money, or physical attraction.
A relationship should be a safe space where two people can talk honestly about difficult topics without shame, manipulation, avoidance, or performance. The more uncomfortable conversations you avoid during dating, the more dangerous the surprises may become after marriage.
Dear SimbiNAlli, attraction alone is not enough. Emotional connection alone is not enough. Prayer alone is not enough. Before saying “yes” to forever, make sure there is honesty, communication, friendship, emotional maturity, shared values, and realistic compatibility.
Sometimes, walking away from the wrong relationship is not failure. It is wisdom.
Your relationship coach,
Temitope Odukoya ❤️
One truth that remains constant in the body of Christ is this: Jesus Christ is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, and no one comes to the Father except through Him (John 14:6). The Bible also says that if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away and all things have become new (2 Corinthians 5:17).
Salvation is not found in religion, church title, denomination, or man-made practices. Eternal life comes through believing in Jesus Christ and accepting Him as Lord and Saviour (Romans 10:9-10). That is the foundation of Christianity.
Many of the things different churches emphasize today are doctrinal positions and secondary issues in the race of the Kingdom. As believers, we must guard our hearts against vain philosophies, empty traditions, and teachings that are not rooted in Scripture (Colossians 2:8).
If the Bible does not teach it, be careful about embracing it, even if it comes from a respected General Overseer, pastor, or church leader. The Word of God is the final authority for doctrine, correction, instruction, and direction (2 Timothy 3:16-17).
Christianity is not about performing religion; it is about becoming like Christ. Get into Christ and get out of empty religion. Let the Word of God guide your convictions more than man-made doctrines or emotional church culture.
As Scripture says: “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” (John 8:32)
Are you free?
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Dear Alli,
Let’s talk about empathy towards Simbi. One thing many men eventually realize is that women are not always easy to understand completely, but they are meant to be loved with patience, care, and emotional intelligence. Women are beautifully complex, biologically and psychologically. What she feels during PMS may be different from how she feels during ovulation or her menstrual cycle. These hormonal changes can affect emotions, energy, mood, and even communication.
There are days your Simbi will be full of excitement and warmth, and there are days she may feel overwhelmed, emotional, withdrawn, or irritated without even fully understanding why herself. This is why empathy is important. Instead of reacting with anger immediately, try to respond with understanding. Sometimes, what she needs is not correction but reassurance, patience, and emotional safety.
The Bible instructs men to love their wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25). That kind of love is patient, kind, sacrificial, and compassionate. Love is not only shown when things are easy; real love is revealed when your partner becomes difficult to deal with and you still choose care over cruelty.
As an Alli, one practical way to support the women in your life, whether your wife, fiancée, sister, niece, or female friend, is by paying attention to their emotional and physical wellbeing. There are even apps today like Flo @flotracker that help track menstrual cycles, ovulation, and hormonal changes. Using those tools from a place of love can help you understand how best to support her during certain periods.
Empathy creates room for healthier communication and deeper connection. When someone acts in a way that upsets you, empathy helps you pause and ask, “What could this person be going through?” instead of jumping straight into assumptions or conflict. That shift alone can save many relationships.
But dear Simbi, empathy should never be abused. While hormonal changes and menstruation can affect emotions and mood, it should not become an excuse for disrespect, manipulation, silence, or hurting the man in your life unfairly. Pain should not justify cruelty. Communication, respect, and emotional maturity still matter.
Regardless of how overwhelmed you feel, you still have the responsibility to manage your emotions wisely and communicate what you need with love and clarity. Instead of choosing rudeness, withdrawal, nagging, or punishment, choose peace, honesty, and healthy communication.
At the end of the day, empathy helps both Simbi and Alli build deeper, healthier, and more meaningful relationships. It helps us heal, connect, understand, and love each other better.
Your Relationship Coach,
Temitope Odukoya
Dear SimbiNAlli,
If the person you are currently talking to in the “talking stage” shows most of these signs, it may be time to pause and honestly reassess what is going on.
1. They rarely message you first. You are almost always the one initiating conversations.
2. You constantly have to double text just to get a response.
3. They hardly pick your calls. Everyone is busy, but no one is too busy to occasionally take a call from someone they genuinely care about.
4. They respond days later even though WhatsApp has shown your message was delivered long ago.
5. Their replies are always short and dry. Just “yes,” “no,” “ok,” or “fine,” with no effort to continue the conversation.
6. They show little interest in spending time with you. Every suggestion to meet up or do something together is declined, and they always seem “busy,” even on weekends.
7. They never check up on you. They don’t ask how your day went or show curiosity about your life.
8. Their focus is one-sided. For some men, the conversation revolves around sex. For some women, it revolves around money and being treated like a “baby girl.”
9. They avoid difficult conversations about where the relationship is heading or what you both want.
10. They refuse to take accountability. Instead of addressing concerns, they twist situations and make you feel like the problem.
Sometimes the signs are not complicated. When someone is genuinely interested in you, their effort usually makes that clear. And when the effort is missing, that silence is also communicating something.
Have you ever noticed any other signs like this during a talking stage? What were the red flags you experienced?
There are many doctrinal activities I personally don’t participate in during some church services, things like “hold your head and shout 70 fire with 120 thunders” or “run to 20 people and tell them you are victorious.”
It’s also not compulsory for me to stand while praying. The Bible never specifically prescribed one posture for speaking to God. Prayer is about sincerity and connection, not performance.
A lot of people today are deeply religious but have not truly embraced Christianity, which is about living like Christ and modelling His character.
Get out of empty religion. Get into Christ.
Many times, we struggle to fully surrender to God’s will because we naturally want life to go according to our own plans and understanding. Yet, the Bible reminds us that God’s ways are higher than our ways and His thoughts are higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9).
As humans, we often make decisions based on emotions, pressure, logic, or personal philosophy, forgetting that even before we were born, God already knew us and had a purpose for our lives (Jeremiah 1:5). Not everything we desire in life will come easily or happen the way we expect, but one thing we are assured of as Christians is that God’s plans for us are good and not evil, to give us a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11).
This is why we must learn to carry God along in every decision we make, relationships, career, business, relocation, marriage, and life generally. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.”
Sometimes God’s direction may not make sense immediately, but obedience to Him will always save us from unnecessary pain and confusion. As believers, our confidence is not in our strength or wisdom, but in the fact that with Christ, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26).
So let me ask you this: if God’s direction for your next season goes completely against your own plans, comfort, or expectations… will you still trust Him enough to obey?
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Lower debt does not always mean lower pressure. Most people look at debt-to-GDP and stop there. That is where the analysis often goes wrong.
France and Portugal carry debt ratios of 111% and 99%. Ghana and Kenya are lower at 71% and 66%. But Ghana and Kenya each spend 26% of revenue on debt service, compared with just 3% and 5% in France and Portugal.
That is the real pressure point. Africa is not just borrowing. It is borrowing under tougher conditions. And when more revenue goes to creditors, less is left for infrastructure, health, education, and growth. The debt conversation should not end with size. It should begin with cost.
Download LEAF Africa’s Africa’s Debt Story report at https://t.co/1lpXCFPqr8 for the full analysis behind Africa’s debt costs and what they mean for growth.
Africa holds little of the world’s debt, but pays much more to borrow.
Africa accounts for just 1.9% of global public debt. Yet many African economies borrow at around 8% to 15%, while larger economies like the United States and China borrow far more cheaply.
That gap is the story. It means Africa often pays more for capital even when it carries far less debt in absolute terms. So the real issue is not only how much debt the continent holds. It is the price attached to it.
Until the conversation shifts from volume to borrowing conditions, we will keep missing the real source of fiscal pressure across African economies.
Read Africa’s Debt Story at https://t.co/06IHW8roaK to understand why Africa’s debt challenge is as much about pricing as it is about volume.
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14 THINGS YOU MUST NOT IGNORE IF YOU WANT TO PROTECT YOUR RELATIONSHIP AS A WOMAN
My dear Simbi, cheating doesn’t just happen overnight. It starts with small habits that may seem harmless at first but gradually grow into something bigger. If you truly want to protect your relationship, there are things you cannot afford to ignore. No excuses. Read this carefully and avoid the following 👇👇
1. ENJOYING ATTENTION FROM OTHER MEN TOO MUCH
It may start with compliments and harmless conversations, but when you begin to crave that attention, it slowly shifts your focus away from your partner.
2. GIVING OUT YOUR NUMBER TOO EASILY
Not everyone deserves direct access to you, especially when you are in a serious relationship. Easy access often leads to unnecessary familiarity.
3. HIDING YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS
If you cannot confidently say you are in a relationship, then you need to question your intentions. Hiding it creates room for confusion and temptation.
4. KEEPING “JUST FRIENDS” YOU’RE ATTRACTED TO
Let’s be honest, not every friendship is innocent. If there is attraction, boundaries will eventually be tested.
5. ENTERTAINING SOMEONE YOU KNOW LIKES YOU
When someone clearly shows interest in you and you keep engaging them, you are indirectly encouraging it, even if you don’t admit it.
6. COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR MAN TO ANOTHER MAN
This creates emotional openings. The person you are complaining to may start positioning himself as a better option.
7. COMPARING YOUR MAN TO OTHER MEN
Comparison brings dissatisfaction. Once you start seeing your partner as “less than,” your mind begins to wander.
8. NOT SETTING CLEAR BOUNDARIES
Trying not to seem rude can cost you your relationship. Boundaries are not wickedness, they are protection.
9. KEEPING SMALL SECRETS AND DELETING CHATS
The moment you feel the need to hide things, you already know something is wrong. It always starts with small secrets.
10. FEELING ENTITLED TO ATTENTION BECAUSE OF RELATIONSHIP ISSUES
Instead of fixing problems or walking away, you start justifying seeking comfort elsewhere. That mindset is dangerous.
11. STAYING IN SITUATIONS THAT TEST YOUR SELF-CONTROL
Private hangouts, late-night emotional calls, and “nothing will happen” moments are risky. You are putting yourself in avoidable temptation.
12. IGNORING SMALL SIGNS BECAUSE THEY SEEM HARMLESS
What feels small today can grow into something serious tomorrow. Most mistakes start from things people dismissed.
13. ALLOWING EMOTIONAL CONNECTIONS OUTSIDE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
The moment you start sharing deep feelings with someone else, your attachment begins to shift without you realizing it.
14. JUSTIFYING WRONG BEHAVIOR INSTEAD OF TAKING RESPONSIBILITY
When you start defending what you know is wrong (gaslighting), you are already on a slippery slope.
Simbi, be honest with yourself, it always starts small.
Protect what you have early, so you don’t end up explaining yourself later.
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If you’re looking for reasons to assess the current administration ahead of 2027, electricity supply should be a major one.
Power supply has dropped significantly in recent years.
During the later part of Buhari’s administration and the early days of this government, many areas, including mine in Lagos, could still manage 10–12 hours daily.
Today, that consistency has reduced sharply.
According to reports from the Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission (NERC) and system data released by the Transmission Company of Nigeria (TCN), Nigeria recorded over 12 national grid collapses in 2024 alone, alongside multiple partial system failures.
At the generation level, issues persist.
The Egbin Power Station (installed capacity: ~1,320MW), one of Nigeria’s largest plants, faced prolonged operational setbacks between August 2025 and early 2026 due to transformer faults and maintenance delays, affecting supply across Ikorodu, Lagos and surrounding areas.
On the distribution side, challenges remain consistent, as highlighted in NERC’s industry performance reports:
• Ageing infrastructure
• Overloaded feeders
• Slow fault response
…all of which continue to impact communities across Nigeria.
Now, let’s talk funding vs results.
According to the Budget Office of the Federation and Federal Government Appropriation documents:
• 2024: ~₦344bn allocated to the power sector
• 2025: ₦400bn+ allocated to power and energy
That’s over ₦700bn in two years.
So the question is simple:
Where is the improvement?
Power sector reform was a major campaign promise in 2023 by Tinubu, yet:
• Generation remains unstable
• Transmission continues to experience collapses
• Distribution inefficiencies persist
Same structural issues.
As 2027 election approaches,
judge performance by outcomes that affect your daily life.
Electricity is not a luxury.
It is the backbone of productivity, economic growth, and quality of life.
Make your decision based on facts, your lived experience, and what you believe is best for the future.
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Dear SimbiNAlli,
One of the easiest ways to know that someone in the talking stage may not be genuinely interested is when all the effort is coming from one side.
If you are always the one calling, always the one asking questions, always the one texting, always the one checking in, and sometimes even needing to double text before getting a reply, then it is time to pay attention to the pattern.
Interest naturally creates effort.
People make time for what matters to them. They may be busy, yes, but even busy people find moments to respond, communicate, and stay connected with someone they truly value.
When excuses become constant, calls are repeatedly ignored, messages are left hanging for long periods, and communication only happens when it is convenient for them, it usually means one thing: you are not a priority.
And in some cases, you may simply be an option they keep around while they focus on someone else.
Do not confuse inconsistency with mystery.
Do not mistake crumbs for genuine affection.
Do not keep chasing someone who is showing you disinterest through their actions.
The talking stage is meant to reveal compatibility, effort, and mutual curiosity, not to drain one person emotionally while the other remains passive.
Choose people who choose you back.
Choose reciprocity over confusion.
Choose peace over mixed signals.
If someone likes you, you will not have to beg communication out of them. My darling SimbiNAlli, when you raise your concerns, they may try to gaslight you, but stand your ground, protect your dignity and walk away with honour.
With care,
Temitope Odukoya ❤️
Dear SimbiNAlli,
In today’s dating world, many people are navigating romantic relationships with fear, caution, and survival instincts. Some are genuine, but many are operating as players, manipulators, or people who refuse to “put all their eggs in one basket.” They keep multiple options, avoid vulnerability, and treat connection like a game instead of a responsibility.
But while protecting yourself may feel wise, there is something important to remember: people are not emotional experiments.
Every careless action in dating can leave wounds. Ghosting, deception, emotional manipulation, gaslighting, breadcrumbing, false promises, and using people for validation may seem small to one person, but they can create lasting emotional injuries in another.
As a relationship coach, one pattern I often see is this: hurt people bleed on those who did not wound them.
Someone who was betrayed enters the next relationship defensive. Someone who was abandoned becomes anxious and clingy. Someone who was lied to struggles to trust. Someone who was used may become cold and detached.
This is how emotional trauma travels from one relationship to another. One wounded person unknowingly wounds the next, and the cycle continues.
My darling SimbiNAlli, be intentional about breaking that loop.
Do not become the reason another person has to heal.
Do not let your unresolved pain turn into someone else’s burden.
Do not normalize hurting people because you were hurt.
Healing requires accountability. It requires honesty. It requires emotional maturity. Sometimes it requires therapy, reflection, boundaries, and time alone to recover properly.
You may not control what others did to you, but you can control what you pass forward.
Choose clarity over confusion.
Choose kindness over manipulation.
Choose honesty over games.
Choose healing over revenge.
The dating pool does not need more wounded people pretending to be okay. It needs more emotionally responsible adults.
Break the cycle. Someone’s future peace may depend on it.
With care,
Temitope Odukoya ❤️