ENM Diaries by Temptress Pixie 🧚🏻‍♀️

Tantric Dominatrix, Ethically Slut Diaries author & alternative relationship expert w/ 10yrs experience

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#bdsm #kink #bdsmpsychology

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feeling proud of my chest and shoulder muscles

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The best way to make you stop talking.
Agree or disagree?

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#highvalue #femininity

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You feel for her pretty fast.
Fell? That woman took my traumatized ass, never judged me, wrapped her arounds around me from behind, and said "I want this one!"

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I love a big strong chest I can flog to awaken the heart's energy. With my body and breath I support my gimp as I move his energy up his body to the third eye and crown.
I want my gimp to feel throughout his entire body.

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Every #queen needs her #thrown

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I will have you surrendering not only in your physical and mental bodies to me, but your emotional, energetic, and spiritual bodies as well.
Then I’ll have you come #backformore

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On your hands and knees. I want you to crawl up the stairs behind me and kiss my heel with every step I take.

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Why don’t I hear more about the women who have healed a man, his heart, his inner child? I believe it is also a massive flex for the feminine who is able to bring out the true masculine in a man.
#feminineflex #relationshiptips #masculine #feminine

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#lostinyoureyes #eyes #blueyes

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hold out your hand

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#highheels #heelfetish #thighhighstockings #stockings

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Kiss my heel

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Say when jealous
Saying the words "I am jealous" take away an enormous power the emotion has over you. Always remember that it is your emotion to learn to manage. It is not a way to control your partner. However, your partner has a responsibility to support you in overcoming your jealousy.

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We’ve done #swinging, #open, and #poly. We lean more towards open and hierarchical poly now (will explain why in another post). But here are some tips that have helped our relationship remain ethically non-monogamous for over 10 years:
(In comments)
#ethicalnonmonogamy

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Celebrate partners happiness
Whether your partner has just met a new crush, had an epic date, and/or has deepen their love and connection with a lover/partner, find the joy in it. I highly recommend not doing “don’t ask don’t tell”, bc then you don’t get to partake in their enjoyment. Speaking of, bring that fire, fun, and joy back to your relationship.

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Reclaim each other
If I could give one tip to couples starting their ENM journey is to ALWAYS save energy for each other at the end of the night. Always come back to each other to reconnect and reclaim one another after playing with others.
In non-hierarchical poly this won’t be needed.

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Rituals
Pick a gesture or activity that you and your primary agree on to keep special between the two of you. I recommend keeping it small/specific because otherwise you could feel like you are too constricted.
Also keep in mind this agreement can change as your relationships changes and grows.
Non-hierarchical Poly: You all may share in the rituals/activities together, but more than likely there will be activities or interests that will be shared between the different connections of duos.