@chesy31_ Sometimes it's good to withdraw and isolate; it prevents you from lashing out when you're in a tense emotional state. But it NEVER hurts to confide to someone close to you. Remember, all your frustrations are valid. It's better than holding it in and letting it overwhelm you, bby
every year i have the same new year resolution:
“An old friend of mine, a journalist, once said that paradise on earth was to work all day alone in anticipation of an evening in interesting company.”
― Ian McEwan
now they’re all here together on this big wild land with the whole shebang. every time i see her we’re all laughs, we marvel, we get into conversations that halfway through one of us will say shit this would be a killer podcast. there’s so much wisdom and knowing in her /5
my best friend is 47 with a newborn, a toddler, two dogs and a husband. i just spent a week at their house. it should have been chaos but it was total serenity. the delightful beast of a toddler tried my patience but over and over her mom had the winning response. i am just /1
After a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn’t do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth… just basking in your toxicity huh?