I’m such a "thank you so much" typa girl because i understand that nobody is obligated to do anything for me, so i'll always appreciate the people who choose to show up for me.!
fun fact: if you’re only valued when you’re radiant, sensual and sweet but not when you’re sad, frustrated or needing emotional depth then you’re being objectified and this goes to friendship too.
I’m at a point in my life where I don’t need everyone to understand me. I’m focused on living a life that feels right for me, not one that makes sense to everyone else.
Drake hosted a dinner last night called “Strong Women, Stronger Drinks” where he gave away over $1 million. He gifted multiple luxury cars to women in attendance, awarded $100,000 to several attendees, and every woman received a welcome package filled with cash.
You cannot be friends with someone who is not in the same wavelength, mindset, or lifestyle as you. Friendship needs alignment.
People who have not attained a certain level of self-awareness or discipline will often become uncomfortable in the presence of someone who has.
No matter how much grace, compassion, or patience you extend to such people, they will eventually feel threatened by the parts of you that remind them of what they have not become.
Instead of being inspired, they become confronted by their own shortcomings. And when that happens, two things often occur:
They will try to pull you down to their level to justify their inadequacies, or slowly buildup envy and resentment towards you. This is why outgrowing people is sometimes necessary; not out of pride, but out of self-preservation.
Finally woke up and realized that the person I was “talking to” was never going to be my man and I was just over romanticizing a situationship that was never going anywhere.
Whew! Happy Monday ☀️