@GiaMMacool It is her choosing him. Not him choosing her. A man is thrilled at being chosen. It is validation that he isn't the worthless pos the world tells him he is.
@beherleader@Jeremy189581982 According to that they should never stop, never rest, never have a moment of peace, even after a 12 hour workday. He should constantly doing more of what his wife tells him to do, for her, so she can stop, rest, and have the peace he is not allowed.
@emilykmay Men do care about the shared life. It's just expressed differently than women want which is why they coax and nag which drives the men away. Then she nags more and he pulls away more.
@lialiascg How many of those women nagged, emasculated, and devalued him to the point he sought validation elsewhere. Essentially driving him away then using that as the justification they did not have before.
@LilaGraceRose This is a demand of purity that stems from an authority's position of power and control. How bout we just encourage people not to sleep with everyone they encounter. Just be more discerning with who you want to fulfill that special connection with.
@megha_lilly Most women would never get married because they are only truly attracted to the top percentage of men. You spot the relationships where she is not attracted to her husband because that is most relationships, they are everywhere.
@megha_lilly He shouldn't have to stand up for himself against his wife. If he has to and sets boundaries, she will accuse him of being abusive. She will not respect him, she will loathe him.
@beherleader Yeah guys....don't stop to sit and rest, no time for yourself. Everything your wife wants, you give her without question, without complaint. Bend to her will, serve her endlessly. Don't you dare burn out either.
@GiaMMacool@Nomadlostdark You should check out this lady's book. "The Queens Code" It talks about understanding how male and female think differently and how to interact with that in mind to develop stronger relationships. https://t.co/DUFNMpTGV8
@GiaMMacool Sure they can spot the difference. The first one you describe is the true "nice guy". The second one you describe is the "asshole". Women will choose that "asshole" every time because he is boastful and peacocks himself as the protector even though he doesn't give a crap.
@TheXMatriarch She shuts down when she realizes that no amount of nagging will change him into the fantasy she wants him to be. He's already shut down from the incessant complaining. He's stopped caring before her because all she ever gives him is nonsense demands complaints and bitching.