My boyfriend got angry because I refused to pay his personal expenses this month. According to him, a woman who truly loves her man should be willing to support him financially.
I asked him, “If a woman has to pay her own bills, buy her own food, support you financially, and still handle her own responsibilities, what exactly does she need a boyfriend for?”
He immediately said I was disrespecting him.🤭
Then he told me that a man deserves to be respected as the head of the relationship.
I laughed and asked, “Does the title come with responsibilities, or is being called THE MAN enough for you?
He hasn't spoken to me properly since that conversation.
@chickyxime He’s bearing the responsibilities of a father without the authority of one. That’s a trap, and it’s going to ruin both his marriage and the kid's discipline
Let me make something clear: I don't mind building with a man who's struggling. We can start from zero and grow together.
But I'm not going to carry a grown man financially while he uses the word respect to silence me whenever I ask what he's contributing.
You cannot demand the privileges of a traditional man while expecting a woman to carry the responsibilities of two adults.
If you want a woman who cooks for you, supports you, stays loyal, gives you peace, and stands beside you through difficult times, what are you bringing to the table besides telling her you're the man?
And before someone says a woman's contribution is different, let's hear it.
My boyfriend got angry because I refused to pay his personal expenses this month. According to him, a woman who truly loves her man should be willing to support him financially.
I asked him, “If a woman has to pay her own bills, buy her own food, support you financially, and still handle her own responsibilities, what exactly does she need a boyfriend for?”
He immediately said I was disrespecting him.🤭
Then he told me that a man deserves to be respected as the head of the relationship.
I laughed and asked, “Does the title come with responsibilities, or is being called THE MAN enough for you?
He hasn't spoken to me properly since that conversation.