Nigerian men are so "love starved" and "care starved" that a lot of basic things freak them, and that's why they're easily manipulated.
Cos tell me, what do you mean "I know I've found my wife when she wasn't asking for money, phone or wigs like other women."
Is the bar that low?
The burden of life may seem too much for us to handle sometimes, but remember that Allah the Merciful knows that we can get through it... Continue to hang on hope from Allah.
“God does not burden any soul with more than it can bear.” [Quran 2:286]