i wish i was dumb enough to be a choice feminist and genuinely believe that doing my hair, makeup, etc. was just "because i want to", but unfortunately every time i do those things i am painfully aware of the influence the patriarchal beauty standard has on me
remember, to be a feminist is to be in a constant state of pissed off because we notice misogyny in EVERYTHING. If you are peaceful with choice feminism, that's because it's not feminism as it aligns with what our society wants = patriarchy. that's why it doesn't disturb you.
as a lifelong good girl i will tell u nothing good ever comes out of being one. you have to be at least a little bit moofat, a little bit talk-backy & blunt & staunchly advocate for yourself (because no one else will) to live w some freedom & happiness as an Indian woman