highkey want a boy who wears glasses and is taller than me and and is strong enough to lift me and carry me when I'm tired and is intelligent and can carry smart conversations and calls me beautiful and isnt afraid to show affection publicly and kisses me all day long
You don’t need a perfect partner. You need someone who can regulate their emotions, admit when they fuck up, & actually sit with uncomfortable conversations without shutting down, flipping it on you, or throwing low blows every time shit gets real.
To the girl reading this: I hope you get a man who loves you so clearly, so consistently, that the thought of questioning it never even crosses your mind.
No decoding his behavior, no anxiety at 2am.
Just peace
your SPOUSE is the one who’ll sit beside you when your PARENTS DIE. who’ll hold your hand through CHILDBIRTH. who might have to BATHE YOU if you’re ever too sick to stand. this isn’t just about BUTTERFLIES or DATE NIGHTS. it’s about choosing someone who SHOWS UP... in GRIEF, in MESS, in UNCERTAINTY. so no, LOVE ALONE isn’t enough. COMMITMENT, MATURITY, and the ability to ENDURE life’s ugly parts... that’s what sustains a MARRIAGE. because when life gets PAINFULLY REAL, ROMANCE won’t carry you... CHARACTER will. and the truth is, FOREVER is only possible with someone who knows how to STAY when it’s HARD TO LOVE