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not a secret, just not your business.

[🖤 @tharaa25]

"Love your rage, not your cage."

[🖤 @tharaa25]

How will I sit in rooms
where my voice needs to be softer,
my thoughts need to be filtered,
my strength needs to be hidden.

How will I call it love if it asks me to shrink?

[🖤 @tharaa25]

Life has an interesting way of humbling people who say, "this can never be me" by allowing them to experience something they claimed would never happen to them.

[🖤 @tharaa25]

The universe humbled me because I used to tell myself that I would definitely leave the table if it doesn't give me peace anymore but when it happened l couldn’t even move a feet.

[Divya 🦋 @Hiraeth85]

The last scene of Dhurandar teaches a powerful lesson: when you've moved far ahead in life and people have learned to live without you, sometimes it's better not to return-for their sake as well as yours. And in life, eventually, everything finds its way into place.

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

A woman can be completely obsessed with you then BOOM….she’s detached because you played with her feelings and thought you were bigger than the program.

[Gracious Onuoha @grayshurz]

Your first mistake in life as a woman, is to assume a man doesn't know what he is doing.

[🖤 @tharaa25]

Partnership is sacred. But sisterhood?
Sisterhood is survival.

[🖤 @tharaa25]

Keep Your Girlfriends✨

Don’t forget your girlfriends. No matter how much you love your husband, you are still going to need girlfriends. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.

[🖤 @tharaa25]

My daughters, sisters, family, and friends bless my life! When we began this adventure we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other. So, keep your girlfriends.

[🖤 @tharaa25]

Girlfriends will give a party for your son or daughter when they get married or have a baby, in whichever order that comes! Girlfriends are there for you, in an instant and when the hard times come. Girlfriends listen when you lose a job or a friend.

[🖤 @tharaa25]

Girlfriends still love you, even when they don’t agree with your choices. Girlfriends laugh with you, and you don’t need canned jokes to start the laughter. Girlfriends pull you out of jams.

[🖤 @tharaa25]

“Why does anybody even get married?”
“Because people tell them they should, and because they’re lonely, and because they are hopeful.”
- The Materialists

[yinka the aquarius @adeyiinka_]

the pr on romantic relationships has made us think all we need is ONE person, when really we need community

[🖤 @tharaa25]

Every eldest daughter
Was the first lamb to the slaughter
So we all dressed up as wolves and we looked fire
But I'm not a bad bitch, and this isn't savage
But I'm never gonna let you down
I'm never gonna leave you out
😭🤌