Walk on your broken foot and let no trace of your hand rest upon another's shoulder ; for dignity is to suffer unseen and strength is to endure alone !
Please choose your partners wisely so that you don't have to find excuses in future to stay away from them. And don't make the children suffer . Do not I repeat!
Eventually the home falls apart with both the parents staying apart in the name of sacrifice for the children . This I've observed is the most common reasons leading to increasing extra marital affairs.