If u have to continuously beg someone to properly communicate with u, treat you with respect and kindness, value your needs and wants, be compassionate towards your emotions, and be loyal to you in relationship which is the bare minimum, then it’s time for you to find someone new
u must give urself permission to move forward, to let go, to believe in the fact that u deserve to be loved by someone who will look at u and know that u are enough. bcs if there is one thing life has taught me, it is that love, genuine love, should never make you feel
I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others