Heard someone say: "if they never heard your side of the story, then the side of the story they heard is how they already felt about you. it's confirmation bias. And honestly, that freed me. Because the truth is, people who want to misunderstand you will always find a way. You could hand them every fact, every detail, every scar and they'd still twist it. So stop defending yourself to people who are committed to their version of you. Protect your peace,not their perception
Physical touch = Too horny
Acts of service = I’m not your mom
Receiving gifts = Feminine
Quality time = ✅ doesn’t require effort
Word of affirmation = why you need to hear that
This Karmelo Anthony verdict being found guilty right after a Chinese man was found innocent after chasing a black kid down and killing him should tell you everything you need to know about what our priorities should be in these United States