I think one of the greatest signs a woman's nervous system is healing is that she starts becoming interested in life again. Not in optimizing it. Not in fixing herself. In living it. She wants to host dinner parties, buy fresh flowers, learn pottery, stay out dancing, read novels, flirt with the barista, and wander bookstores for no reason other than it feels good to be alive.
Please INVEST IN YOUR LOOKS, get the facial, buy these shoes, the jewelry, get your hair and nails done. You look better, you feel better, you do better, people treat you better, life gets better.
If you’re an anxious person, just do everything for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. ANXIETY FEEDS ON IMPORTANCE. Do not make everything a matter of life and deaťh.
the neurodivergent obsession with trying to figure out why someone did what they did. replaying it. analyzing it. asking your friends. asking your therapist. asking your friends again. because your brain literally cannot accept that some people are just cruel for no reason.
We brought back baggy jeans, Polaroid cameras, and vinyl records. Can we bring back basic human empathy too? The way it’s become so rare is concerning.