- doing your hair or makeup and realizing you look really good today not for anyone, just for you.
- laughing so hard with your girls that your stomach hurts.
- being emotionally safe with someone, no fear, no walking on eggshells.
- seeing results from something you’ve been consistent with (gym, work, healing).
- saying “no” and not feeling bad about it.
i’ll let a ngga think he having his way with me & BOOM, one day i’ll wake up & ignore him for life 😂😂😂😂 this ain’t that. i’m not THEM & they’re not ME. i promise ya, you gone feel my absence.
I’ve came to terms with the fact that I really am allowed to feel however I want to feel about any situation, without anyone else having to understand why I feel the way I do.
girl to girl.... put you first. hit the gym consistently. keep your nails done. eat GOOD food. do the hobbies you enjoy. take your vitamins. 9-10 hours of sleep. buy that new workout set. delete distractions. water your grass so much that you don't give a shit about anyone
i saw a quote that said “everyone loves you when you let everything slide, but the moment you start setting boundaries and holding people accountable, you become the one that’s difficult” and that’s real shit.