“Whether my absence is felt or not, I won’t use silence to prove my point. My validation isn’t tied to someone else’s awareness of me- it’s rooted in my awareness of myself. I can care deeply, show up with kindness, and still walk away with peace if I need to”✨
I think the best thing I'm learning as an adult is to ignore people. When you realize people say & do weird & evil things to get a reaction out of you, you learn that silence is more powerful than proving a point. No response is the loudest response. The moment you respond people start feeling important & think they bigger than the program but I control the traffic