Not complaining at all btw. Cause there was a time I was sooo sick and lost way too much weight so 1. My stomach issues have resolved and 2. My husband keeps me happy & well fed 😂
I stopped carrying the burden of being misunderstood so long ago:
Some people need us to remain the version of us they are comfortable with. Others benefit from misunderstanding you because it supports a story they’ve already told themselves about you.
Having radical acceptance that my dad is & might always be a liar & a narcissist. Like, no wonder I used to accept bottom of the barrel cause he was the original example.