Once the question.... How are you is asked, the default response is always... "Fine".
Many are not fine but chose to say so for diverse reasons.
Please, if you are not fine in whatever form, please say so, at least to 1or2 that genuinely care. The universe is also listening.
@jon_d_doe Maintaining a car used for Uber is high in addition to taking care of the family.
If he is not lazy and reckless, the wife should support him. She should also let him know with proofs that it was borrowed and will be repaid
@paaygyn@TeeMento That made me understand that if it is the first one, the second will not come. I took the second option and to God be the glory.
I am even surprised the wife supported staying. Most of them prefer Japa for their selfish interests.
@paaygyn@TeeMento I was in a situation like this at some point though japa wasn't the option, it was two job offers. My interest was in the first one then the second came then became confused.
I prayed about it and God reassured me of the fact that he is not a God of confusion.
@miraghini No, don't mistake stoopidity for affection or love, a father can't be that fuulish. What happens to staying safe at home or under a shed till the rain stops. What any of them falls into a ditch covered with water due to the rains?
@mayorde4you2 That's still a good decision. Risk is as important as returns. If you are not ready to take the risk, no one should force the returns on you. He is probably comfortable with the existing returns and it's risk. Yours might come with higher returns but riskier.
@13_xcvi What goes around comes around.
Husbands are probably too busy and engaged with making provisions for the home. Entertaining the compliments and affection of one randy e-diot Is lack of dignity and respect for the husband.
You will understand better when you get there.
@Wizarab10@Skolex5 A lot of mothers don't tell the truth to their daughters. Not intentional most times but I think it is about being too emotional than being logical.
I told someone, corruption and bad governance is the problem in this country. what if someone else becomes president, reduces corruption, deliver good governance, eliminate wastage and the economy gets better for everyone in less than 4yrs, or isn't it possible?
Just imagine the kind of positive energy that Nigeria will witness nationally and internationally if someone like PO is declared president!
Those that think 8 years is not enough to change things for the better will know that even in 4years, it is possible.
@verryneae Don't forget that They came into power with too many propaganda, It's their trademark. They must keep being in power with loads of it. Nigerians mus pai that party before the party pai Nigeria.
@shestoodtoconq@carter8f Message to young men...
Please check you supposed partner's posts on social media. A lot of unreasonably emotional comments like this will save you from lack of peace of mind in the future.
@suf_davinci @verryneae In as much as it looks so, I still believe people will have no choice than to think of the common good when that is been projected at the top.