People who are suicidal can still:
- socialise
- exercise
- smile and laugh
- eat and sleep well
- be successful
- have goals for their life
- look like they aren’t suicidal
TW rape
I'll never forget the backlash to this from men online adamant that this had nothing to do with rape. ENRAGED at the suggestion it was a metaphor. In hindsight, it reminds me how angry men get when women confront them with the horrors of rape & suggest they should care.
self sabotage when you have a fear of loss or a fear of things leaving is so real. bc it’s easy for your behaviors to reflect that thought even if it’s subconscious. and then if it does happen, it furthers confirmation bias & this cycle of fear. being aware of it is so important
things to say about your dating preferences, basically immediately:
-if you’re monogamous or poly.
-if you’d like to date exclusively or if you’re open to you both dating (going on dates) with multiple ppl.
-if you like to text frequently or are more absent.
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“We’re only getting divorced because she’s legally allowed by the state to get one without my permission” is a weird fucking thing for a man to stress several times…
Marriage only works if both people want it. Requiring both to want the divorce sounds like a hostage situation.