After that you don't just want love anymore, you want peace and consistency.
So yes, breakups hit harder when you're older, because now you know what kind of love you're no longer willing to settle for.
Breakups when you're
entering your 30s hit different
no?It's not the same as a 20-year-old heartbreak anymore
Pag nasa late 20s ka na or pa-30s iba na. You're not just losing a person, you're losing plans, routines and the version of yourself that was building a future with them.
Minsan talaga di enough yung physical rest kasi no amount of sleep can fix a tired soul. Mental health breaks are needed just as much pero kasi most of us do not have the luxury to do it.
Reminding you—yes, ikaw—to take care of yourself, the beautiful and messy parts included.
CW: violence 😢 this is horrible. I am not just furious at the attacker but even more so that this “security guard” stood there and did nothing. 💔💔💔 My heart breaks for this Filipino woman who could’ve been my mom or auntie. And my heart breaks for humanity 😞