This man was very aware of how social media works and decided to live a private life in his last days. I truly respect the privacy his Friends and family gave him. Even some of his Nollywood besties had no idea what was going on. He was prepared for the End.
Not replying to messages quickly doesn’t make someone a bad friend. Anxiety can make even simple conversations feel overwhelming. Real friends understand that.
I have never truly met a woman who was a “gold digger.”
What I have seen, over and over again, are men who quietly position themselves around a woman’s strength, her stability, her network, her ambition and call it love.
Nigerians: I hate this country
Also Nigerians when other nationalities and foreigners criticise Nigeria.
It’s giving “I am the only one that can criticise this country”
Last week, I saw a picture of him and the girl with their three kids… Is it normal that I feel this pain when I saw the picture?? It was like fresh wounds… It has been over 10 years, I shouldn’t feel this way at all”.
……. Stories
“I met my Ex when I was in 200 level,12 years ago… We had one year of peaceful relationship until we started having fights. The fights started because of another girl who came into my Ex life. He told me she was just a friend but I wasn’t comfortable with their friendship.
I broke up with him when the fights and constant quarrels became unbearable… Few months after, he started dating her… I was heartbroken because I thought we would be able to fix the relationship while we were on break. I went no contact with him from that moment till now.
People who move abroad, take blue-collar jobs, make videos at their place of work and post “See how I’m suffering for the 2k you are asking”—nobody sent you abroad, and you owe no one an explanation. Focus on your hustle and stop seeking pity.
Being busy is not an excuse not to update your partner. It doesn’t take much to send a text or a quick call. This means you are accountable and have your partner in mind. Relationship is a responsibility and if you can’t handle the bare minimum then you should let go.