I say this with love…
The truth does not have to be hurtful & honesty does not have to be brutal.
We choose tough love, because we don’t know how to truly speak the language of God’s love.
I was never loved correctly by my ex’s because I wasn’t loving me correctly.
I met my husband as I was learning to love myself.
Being with him has helped me learn to not only love myself, but other people correctly.
All because I admitted to not knowing how to love me first.
I lack nothing but the self discipline to follow through.
Long story short…
Everything I need to succeed is within me, but it is up to me to utilize it and put in the work to manifest it.
I don’t address things that don’t trigger me to respond.
Long story short…
If it doesn’t bother you, stop explaining, responding, or giving attention to it.
Otherwise, admit you’re triggered, figure out why, and deal with you!
Not them…