I don't think we truly fathom how insane it is that when a woman is murdered, the first suspect is always the husband. Like there's a literal saying.(It's always the husband). For an entire society to instinctively think of a woman's partner first whenever she's murdered.
I don’t understand why people are so obsessed with being victims in a chaos they created, free will has freedom of consequences or is everybody confused
Now pay very close attention to how some of the women who were thirsting over him change their tune (rightly so), while a lot men who never cared for him become his biggest fans and defenders.
I’ve never taken anything men did to me personally because they will treat you terribly because they are fighting internal battles of inadequacy and sometimes possible closeted homosexuality.
I can’t compete with someone’s self hatred, that’s between them and God.
Most people are not genuinely good people.
Most are not really interested in doing the inner work required to actually be a good person,
they are only interested in APPEARING to be a good person.
People hear you say you’re passionate and only think about the positive aspects of passion. I’m passionate in love but I’m also passionate in anger, sadness, disgust and everything else I feel.
She’s so right though we have this overt societal pressure to be this very stern stringent idea of adulthood. You’re too old to be at this convention, you’re too grown to like this group, you’re too old to enjoy a stuffed toy, it’s like damn whose fuckin life is it actually?