Just shut the door to my old apartment. Got the rest of my stuff and now there’s nothing left. Cried on my kitchen floor for a good 10 minutes just reliving how many painful and good memories I have there. But it was more pain than anything.
A cheating man is bad enough. But you know what’s even worse? A man who pretends to be a good person, when in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim.
Cut off narcissist people, stop giving them space, they drain energy, twist words, and make everything about themselves, they won't change, so don't waste time, cut ties, block them, move on, protect your peace, no second chances.
u call her toxic now.
but u met her when she was kind, open, trusting. before the lies. before the betrayal. before she had to protect herself from u. she became guarded because u kept hurting her, reactive because u kept crossing line. she became tired because she kept choosing u while u chose yourself. that wasn’t toxicity, that was damage. and expecting her to stay soft after everything u put her through is the real denial.
you changed her, then blamed her?