What’s funny (in a wrong way) about this adalah jika u perempuan, the chance lo dapet diagnosis ASR + ADHD itu KUECIL BUANGET.
Most likely bakal dapet BPD, bipolar, depresi, gg. kecemasan.
Tau gak apalagi yang bikin ngeri? This is world wide phenomenon.
https://t.co/8jT9gre8Vw
Sebagai orang yang pro-aborsi, gue tau kalo sebenernya di banyak kota-kota di Indonesia ada komunitas yang bisa bantuin perempuan yang hamil tidak direncanakan (baca: aborsi). Komunitas ini akan ngedampingin, ngejagain kesehatan fisik maupun mental, dan mastiin perempuan tsb dapet dukungan yang dibutuhin. Tapi komunitas-komunitas ini nggak bisa go public, jadi susah diakses karena cuman ytta, karena liat aja respon orang-orang masih begini.
Gue nggak minta kalian berubah jadi pro-aborsi. Silakan kalo mau lanjutin stigma dan penghakiman kalian, wahai pemegang kunci surga. Silakan kalo mau terus salahin perempuan-perempuan tsb tanpa kasih mereka solusi; nyatanya setiap hari akan tetap ada yang hamil di luar nikah/tidak direncanakan, terlepas dari setuju atau enggaknya kalian terhadap aborsi.
Btw aksi kalian hanya menyebabkan perempuan-perempuan ini jadi takut dan berakhir mencari jalan yang nggak aman, atau bayi yang dilahirin akhirnya terpaksa ditelantarin/dib*nuh. Dan masih banyak juga resiko lainnya kedepannya kayak dipaksa menikah dll yang ujung-ujungnya malah bikin semua pihak jadi sengsara, dst, nggak bisa gue jabarin satu-satu. So keep going, karena it shows you guys don't actually care (and it's not my responsibility to make you care). And while you're at it, don't forget to blame the men too. Karena kehamilan tidak direncanakan nggak pernah terjadi oleh satu orang.
usually if ppl have few/no friends it’s bc they struggle w/ social skills, depression, or have a busy schedule. none of those are moral failings. however I find it consistent that highly manipulative & selfish ppl are often charismatic & have huge friend groups who enable them
everyone on the timeline is acting like girls are never cruel to each other (???) and i don’t think denying the facts is the feminist win you all want it to be
the reactions to this tweet just solidifies to me that i literally don’t care to be your friends. most of the people who fit in really well in current society have either no backbone or are adult bullies. men and women. many of you suck and clique up with other people who suck
None of you are self-aware. You are howling narcissists. This woman starts this video off by listing her personality type, attachment style, horoscope, as if borrowed categories add up to a self. You think about yourselves too much and have mistaken it for introspection.
realizing agreeing to work on communication with someone who will always make themselves the faultless victim is absolutely useless i hate that im actually incapable of cutting people off when every fiber of my being knows i need to. friendship shouldn’t hurt so badly man.
I honestly dont get why some people are hating on this... kalau ada orang yang mau ngobrol sama aku berjamjam without any distraction aku mah seneng ya :// romance is dead omg
"This isnt sweet" mungkin kamu terbiasa melihat act of love sebatas bentuk benda doang??
Loving someone with all your heart, imagining a future with them, and believing they would always be there, only to watch them slowly become distant. It's carrying memories that still mean everything to you while they seem to have moved on without looking back. The pain isn't just losing the person; it's losing the version of yourself that felt safe, loved, and complete with them. Sometimes the deepest wounds come from the people you trusted the most, because you never expected them to become the reason for your tears. And no matter how much time passes, a part of your heart still aches for what could have been.
terlalu ngeremehin rasa sakit orang lain, nyatanya di lapangan banyak banget kasus orang sampai desprade dan depresi klinis karena diselingkuhi atau patah hati. luka asmara itu nyata, bisa mengubah sifat, dan bikin trauma mendalam, jadi sama sekali bukan hal remeh.
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