One day gents you must understand that women are reciprocators, not initiators. They step AFTER y’all step. You lead, they FOLLOW. Idk how else to explain this but it’s really SO simple.
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Your entire life can really change in a year. You just gotta love yourself enough to know you deserve more, be brave enough to demand more, and be disciplined enough to actually work for more. You can do it. You got this.
If God wants someone in your life, He'll find a way for you to cross paths. You won't have to make it happen yourself or force anything. It will just simply be.
Ruth did not go back to what she had already outgrown. She followed God into unfamiliar ground, and He met her through obedience. Your next chapter will not be found by looking behind you. Keep moving forward. God is already there. 🤍
WOMAN TO WOMAN: Date sweet men. Men who are calm. Men who can articulate themselves. Men who are soft spoken. Men who are patient with you. Men who respect both you and themselves. Men who are kind to you. Men that are gentle. Men who have self control. Men who protect your peace, not test it.
Never again will I pretend to be the easygoing, low-maintenance girl. I like flowers & random acts of kindness I don't have to ask for. I like random "thinking of you" texts & sweet check-ins. I like forehead kisses & good morning texts. I like being taken on thoughtful dates I didn't have to plan. I like being shown off, like someone you're proud to have. I like affection, intentional time & little surprises. I like being loved loudly & I'm done shrinking myself to be “easier to love”. 🤍