I find the “Consent is sexy” phrasing quite icky and I can’t place why.
Oh! Maybe it’s because I believe that consent is not something we need to paint in a cute, “sexy” manner just to get people to find it appealing.
CONSENT IS REQUIRED, MANDATORY, NECESSARY and EXPECTED. 👍🏿
Bruh! I have officially seen ALL of the good sitcoms.
The Office, Young Sheldon, The Big Bang Theory,Friends, Two and a half men, Bojack Horseman, That 70s show, Community, Modern Family, Seinfeld, Brooklyn Nine Nine, Baby Daddy, Abott Elementary, Everybody hates Chris, Big Mouth
Two Broke Girls, Rick and Morty, Family guy, The Simpsons, Archer, American Dad, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, New Girl, Schitt's creek, Derry girls, Fleabag, Superstore, Friday Night Dinner,The Plebs, Kim's Convenience, The Good Place, Bob's Burgers, The Ranch,
Wanted to go on a date with a babe and when I suggested we start at the Natural science museum and visit the national art gallery she said it's not her thing. Fair enough. I did not continue the conversation. Immediately lost interest. Dating now is the pits.
make i defend una finish offline, come online dey see “we are not hating men enough?”
fight your fight. fight us all. no man is innocent. it’s all men.
@_imvegas@quesadaaa_ It's the audacity of these fucking males. Anything but take accountability for their derangement. "Willing to change" and should not be reported because he confessed in Bible study. The absolute gutter talk.
@_imvegas@quesadaaa_ Who the fuck cares if he confesses in a Bible study or on the streets? A father talks about sexually harassing his child and you think we should give a damn that he confesses. A rapist should go change in jail, and you can go with him too.
Don't be fucking stupid.
They're now harassing somebody's mother and telling her to tell her daughter to take the videos down.
The videos where she was talking about how the whole thing has been happening for a long time btw.
They said "no penetration was recorded, therefore, there was no rape."
In 2013, 12-year-old Ifunanya Favour Ibe was abducted, raped, and killed in Ekiti State by 34-year-old Samuel Chukwunyere.
In 2014, 70-year-old Cecilia Ogidi-Okereke was raped to death in a bush in Abia/Oyo by a 32-year-old man while she was gathering leaves.
In 2014, 500-level university student Taiwo Omolara Shittu was raped and killed at her sister’s home in Oyo State.
In 2017, an unnamed 14-year-old girl was gang-raped to death in Abule-Ado, Lagos by a group of local boys.
In 2018, 13-year-old Ochanya Elizabeth Ogbanje died from VVF complications in Benue State after years of repeated rape by her uncle, Andrew Ogbuja, and his son, Victor.
In 2020, 22-year-old Vera Uwaila Omozuwa was brutally raped and struck in the head with a fire extinguisher inside an RCCG parish in Benin City, Edo State, leading to her death days later.
In 2020, 18-year-old Barakat Bello was raped and butchered with machetes during a home robbery in Ibadan, Oyo State.
In 2020, 29-year-old Shomuyiwa Gulako was raped and murdered in her apartment in Ibadan, Oyo State, where her head was smashed with a stone.
In 2020, 11-year-old Zainab Adeyemo was raped and murdered in a bush in Ondo State by an Okada rider, Dare Ojo, while he was transporting her to a market.
In 2020, 11-year-old Favour Okechukwu was gang-raped to death in the Ejigbo area of Lagos.
In 2021, 14-year-old Karen-Happuch Aondodoo Akpagher died from complications following a rape incident at her school in Abuja.
In 2021, job seeker Iniobong Umoren was lured to a fake interview, raped, and murdered in Akwa Ibom State by Uduak Akpan.
In 2021, 300-level student Blessing Olajide was raped and strangled in her home in Ilorin, Kwara State.
In 2021, an unnamed 6-year-old girl was raped to death in Kaduna State.
In 2022, 22-year-old Oluwabamise (Bamise) Ayanwola was abducted, raped, and murdered in Lagos aboard a BRT bus driven by Andrew Nice Ominikoron, who was supported by unidentified accomplices.
In 2024, 2-year-old Umma Salma died from severe penetration injuries after being raped beside a mosque in Ningi, Bauchi State.
In 2025, 34-year-old Ugochi Anosike was raped and strangled in her room in Oyigbo, Rivers State.
In 2025, Banke William Jimoh was raped to death and had her neck slashed during a home invasion in Keffi, Nasarawa State, by unidentified armed men.
In 2025, 3-year-old Harira Yakubu Bala was found dead with multiple injuries in a bush in Jigawa State after being raped and molested.
In 2025, 2-year-old Maryam Ahmad was sexually assaulted in Bassa, Plateau State by 26-year-old Job Josiah; she survived the physical attack but remains severely traumatized.
In 2025, 64-year-old Mulikat Sanni was raped and murdered in Ondo State by her grandson, Ahmed Toheed, over witchcraft allegations.
In 2026, a 4-year-old girl was allegedly assaulted at an Islamic school in Jikwoyi, Abuja by the son of a teacher.
In 2026, there’s a RAPE FESTIVAL currently ongoing in Ozoro. Victims neither be name nor accounted for.
These are the very few cases that made it to the social media. The only things that the victims have in common, is a vagina. Babies, old women, sluts, prudes, sex-workers, girlfriends, in their homes, in the church, in the mosque, in the bush, in a bus, in a school… they just need to exist.
“Cover yourself, dress properly, mind where you go”… some where covered, some didn’t need to be cover because they were babies, some went to church, some were just commuting, some didn’t even go anywhere because they were in their house.
“Not all men”, but the perpetrators? Artisans, uncles, grandsons, strangers, lovers… all overwhelmingly, men.
I don’t know what to say. To say I’ve been in tears might come off as performative but all I can say is that, for every time women cry out and you feel the need to point out “not all men”, “men too..”, “what about false accusations”… (again, I’m not going to say anything because all I have right now is venom and bile).
And you, as a woman, who is a Proverbs 31 woman personified and so “I’m not a feminist ooo”, I hope you know you’re (not even one wrong move away, because you don’t have to move to be a victim), I hope you know you’re simply at the mercy of fate. Your agreeability and modesty won’t save you. Your existence is simply one wrong man’s decision away from becoming a crime scene.