The key to living a comfortable life is confrontation and chaos actually. You have to say no. You have to tell people to fck off. You have to be mean in necessary situations.
My dad cheated on my mom and started treating us badly when I was 14. I’m 32 now. I traced the woman he cheated with on Facebook, found out she’s married, started stalking her husband… and now we’re dating.
Just remember that this human experience is temporary. You arrive with nothing, you spend your whole life chasing everything, but still leave with nothing. So make sure that your soul gains more than your hands.