Being single isn’t the problem, being expected to fund an entire life alone is. One income covering 100% of the rent, bills, food, everything… with no safety net and no one to split the pressure with. Then the same people who’ve never had to do it solo tell you to “budget better.” Budget what exactly? The system didn’t fail, it just quietly stopped working for anyone on their own.
ppl w adhd do shit like procrastinate for 3 months straight & then in one 24-hr day knock out 3 months of tasks. you either know this life or you don’t lol.
My mom had an existential crisis when she was at my book event, I dont think she’d ever been in company of so many women in their 30s who were single with no kids 😭😭😭