i don't think people really understand that there is no coming back from certain things. Some damage does not get undone, and once it changes how you see someone, that's it. Not everything deserves a second chance, no matter how sorry they are.
A woman’s detachment starts when she realizes she’s said the exact thing before multiple times, in different ways, with different tones. Calmly , then emotionally, then quietly, then in frustration and still nothing changed . Then she gives up.
Remember to constantly congratulate yourself for all your mental, physical, and spiritual growth. you came far. you’ve evolved in so many ways. giving yourself credit and acknowledging your improvements takes you to the next level.
I work on myself because I understand that I am responsible for where I end up. Not for everything that happened to me, but for every response, every habit, and every decision I made after it. That distinction is everything. Blame is easy. Ownership is what actually changes your life.
I think one of the biggest signs of growth is when you stop needing people to understand your decisions. Because the truth is, some people only support your choices when those choices benefit them.