@ronakkallianpur I don’t know who did this projection, but they have no idea we take more breaks walking our dogs, helping our kids, and eating not fast food than any office setting…ever.
In your power dynamic, men are servant leaders so let’s first discuss how he serves because any woman who feels loved, SAFE and honored can’t keep her hands off a good man. Stop chastising women for being tired, mistreated, even afraid. Start holding men accountable
If it is the same that husbands should be available for their wives just like wives to their husbands, than they can control their sexual urges just like you expect women “control their emotions.” Expecting anything less from men is creating an abusive dynamic. Period.
No, I don’t believe husbands should ever force themselves upon their wives. I have never taught this and never will. Women should freely be sexually available to their husbands. Husbands should be to their wives too. This is God’s will for us.
Yes, there are times when it’s impossible due to sickness, injury, or after childbirth. Not being in the mood isn’t one of them, and women tend to use this often. We obey God whether or not we’re in the mood. Being in the mood isn’t a biblical exception. Decide to be in the mood! Control your moods. You can, you know. Stop letting them control you.
What I shared earlier was a one time event. If it was ongoing, I would have given her different advice, but it wasn’t. Her husband wasn’t a physically abusive man. Rapists are.
@randalladams Instead of treating exceptions me like a political issue or a statistic, treat me like a person. I have to now make a decision if I can keep trying to have a baby because my government might let me die. An ounce of compassion from you and others celebrating today would be great.
I wonder what Evangelical leaders are going to say when revival doesn’t hit America because Roe v Wade was overturned. What is the next excuse they are going to use for why people aren’t coming to Jesus? How much time and resources will they spend to avoid looking at themselves?
@randalladams You can try to hide your callous comments behind states rights, leaving the state to be “compassionate” towards people like me so you don’t have to be, but our beloved state has one of the highest maternal mortality rates in America. People here are already not doing their jobs.
@randalladams And the Republican Party has hijacked the church’s “morality” to push ungodly agendas trading spiritual power for political power.
Do no speak to me from your self-righteous armcharm about killing babies, there are 5 that I desperately wanted but couldn’t have because of my body.
@randalladams Why? Because it is officially labeled as an abortion. This isn’t about killing babies, this is about protecting mothers. But more than that, it’s about how to church has used this subject to excuse their own behaviors as reasons why people want nothing to do with Jesus.
“For He Himself is our peace… that He might reconcile them both to God in one body through the cross, thereby putting to death the enmity. And He came and preached peace to you who were afar off and to those who were near.”
Ephesians 2:14-17 NKJV
When will Evangelical leaders stop making “sinners” the enemy of Christ, as if they are holding back the agenda of Heaven?
They forget that humans, all humans, ARE the agenda of Heaven.
I think it’s important to note that God is a God of consent. God is a God of choice. God looks for willing participants, not forced slaves.
And God has demonstrated that giving us choice is the loving thing to do.
And if God wasn’t going to force Mary to have His baby, I’m not sure anyone should force a woman to have a baby.
When the life of a woman is at risk, when she didn’t choose to get pregnant, when there is no help for the mother, this choice is everything.