Emerson

ADULT EDUCATION 18+ / NMIK!!! / sex and kink education for kinksters, those interested in kink, and everyone in between! 💕/ queer Jewish gal 🌈/ she/her

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

Weekly kink reminders:
-kink can look like anything you want it to
-there’s no such thing as “too weird”
-I promise you aren’t the only one
-there’s no “perfect way” to be kinky
-being a sub/dom has no “look”
-you deserve respect and understanding
-it is never too late to learn

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

@OnQueerStreet Not sure who to pitch but if you wanted to interview someone @lifewflo & @polyamoryinpractice have a great post on queering compersion on IG if you’re looking for sources (when the article gets picked up!)

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

@AskASub Sometimes background noise like a tv or music will help my very anxious brain shut up!! It’s almost like overstimulation for calm. If everything is quiet i focus wayyyy too much on things like how my stomach looks, varying sensations- like sheets, and overhead bright, lights.

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

The bee movie and then played kid rock

[Flo (AMFT, Sex Coach, Educator) @lifewflo]

I’m not sure if this is a glitch, if my page is being targeted, or if someone is spam reporting me. All I know as is this has cost me stability, peace, and money. I have emailed @instagram with no avail, so I am simply asking for answers.

[Flo (AMFT, Sex Coach, Educator) @lifewflo]

@instagram I am a Trans & Black creator but as of April 23rd I have been pushed off the platform.

Instagram has emailed me 3 times saying they accidentally suspended my account but upon reactivation, I receive the same suspension msg. It’s been weeks & it has cost me business.

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

@OnQueerStreet I have vaginismus and also enjoy anal!

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

Why did i read this as flogger until i got to the cars part lol

IF there was a flogger scene I’d def be more inclined to go see it

[Jillian Anthony (Threads: @jillathrilla) @jillathrilla]

Just saw John Wick 4 and there’s this one Frogger scene where he’s hit by no less than SIX cars

[Ask_Ezra_ @HouseOfAlgos]

@GigiEngle In my opinion, using the term "safe" to describe activities that involve risk feels irresponsible to me. "Risk aware" yes, "risk reduced" yes, "safer" sure, "safe" no. It's part of the reason SSC is problematic.

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

I for one LOVE the sensation, adrenaline, and closeness i receive when doing impact play in a platonic way with my platonic friends

Defining kink activities as inherently sexual activities disregards a lot of other reasons people engage in kink and disregards asexual kinksters

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

This is NOT to say that we can’t practice and really hone our impact skills to ensure strength and aim is accounted for BUT the reality is is that shit happens and safety is never guaranteed, in anything we do as humans, nonetheless in an inherently higher risk activity

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

In my opinion as a kinkster and kink educator, impact play does not need to be sexual

In fact, for lots of ppl, impact play can be done for intimate, sensual, cathartic, adrenaline, or just plain sensation reasons.

Sometimes we like to be spanked to be spanked; nothing sexual

[Gigi Engle @GigiEngle]

Impact play is an umbrella term for all things sexual involving hitting or being hit with an object in a safe and consensual way.

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

Especially with a pretty universal lack and limited understanding of physics, anatomy, and strength.

Like sometimes we just don’t know how to control our strength nor how the physics of an object will relate to where the object hits on a person (even if we aim REALLY well)

[Evie Lupine 💜🖤🤍 @EvieLupine]

people complain about Fetlife being dead every 2 years, but let's be honest:

it's been in the same "edgier than thou braggadocious circlejerk" vs. "clueless folks who just want to jerk off and send creepy messages" death-spiral for like 10 years now.

[latke @latkedelrey]

actually, weird fetish porn exists because people already had weird fetishes and wanted stuff to masturbate to

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

My definitions will ALWAYS be made with the intention to include everyone so everyone can get kink education.

Defining kink and fetish in ways that exclude people means that we are excluding those people from accessing education, something i do NOT stand for.

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

This week i got in a bit of an IG discussion in my comments about how we shouldn’t define kink as inherently sexual.

As someone who often gets in these ig talks, i can tell when the other commenter and I just won’t agree. So i end it with the space for them to reply. 1/? 🧵

[Emerson @thekinkeducator]

Definitions are meant to be ever changing and evolving. We as humans are ever changing and evolving.

Definitions are supposed to expand to include everyone.

Definitions should ALWAYS be made with the intention to include everyone so everyone can get kink education.