When you choose a life partner, romance is the smallest part of the contract.
You’re choosing how conflict will sound in your house. How money will be treated. Whether growth is welcomed or quietly punished. Whether a mistake meets cruelty or grace. You’re choosing the weather of ordinary days: the tone of anger, the quality of silence, the habits you will live beside when no one is performing.
Chemistry fades. Irresponsibility, disrespect, and immaturity don’t. The wrong person will charge you years of peace you can’t buy back. The right one gives you more than love. They give you a life you can finally breathe in.
What did you learn the hard way about choosing someone to build a life with?
what is happening in this country? people are so rotten my God?? what exactly is the issue with Nigerians? is it survival? i'm just tired. these news are just so gutwrenching.
“Nigerians please forgive me, It’s the handiwork of the d£vil. I have only made 300 dollar so far from the content"
— Nigerian mother who sexûålly abused her 7-year-old daughter and used her to create adult content pleads for forgiveness.
Something I’ve noticed about dating is that the way two people originally met can matter disproportionately to the relationship. I’ve heard people basically say, “yeah, my relationship sucks, but we had a meet-cute, so I’m sticking it out.”
Behind every cheerful person is not vapidness or superficiality, rather, it is a great rebellion against the darkness and requires great strength and courage.
you know sometimes, a woman wants to fuck and have a lil orgasm. what exactly is the playing field? there's no winning in the patriarchy. damned if you, damned if you don't.
let's stop this stupid rhetoric!
Casual sex/hookup culture was always a cope straight women used to make themselves feel like they had a level playing field with men and I’m glad younger women aren’t fooling themselves with it