Thinking about the time in my childhood when I noticed the patch of hyperpigmentation in the inside of my arm and when I asked my non-black mother what it was she said it was dirt and I spent years scrubbing my arm hard af in the shower wondering why it never came off :)
Knowing that ADHD/Autistic folk are prone to Rejection Sensitivity Disorder should change the way you date. Saying “no” to an AuDHDer is more like telling a neurotypical to kill themselves. One date, just a couple hours of your life, is not too much to ask for and really helps