@Adeife_Adenekan@the_olany Like bro, rn I really don’t care who stays and who leaves anymore like do whatever the fuck your feel is right for you, that’s kind of the mindset that I’m on.
Let us leave out the usual not-so-subtle shaming tactics on display here for a bit
Everything she is whining about, women do it far more than men.
- Women like men but do not tell them
- Women like men but do not shoot their shot - after one rejection, they resolve to chew jeans than do it again.
- Sex toy stores sell out dildos and vibrators faster than akara on a rainy saturday morning
Nobody fights harder to hide attraction from the person they're attracted to like women
Nobody suppresses their own desires because they're obsessed with maintaining the appearance of being wanted rather than wanting, like women.
And that includes the person crying here.
I wonder what content is 'affecting' her and other women into behaving this way
Because as expected, she has never complained when women do it. Of course she hasn't; she does it herself. Much more than any man can imagine let alone match
The primary reason she's crying about men doing it, is because it deprives her of leverage.
You can't manipulate a man if he does not show his feelings for you. You can't play him if he refuses to put his emotional cards on the table.
That is the real gripe here.
So no, she isn't even criticising men at all. She is bitterly expressing her entitlement to leverage over men.
Because by the mere fact of possessing a vagina, she is used to men making their attraction to her obvious and therefore available for her consumption.
She has lived all her life seeing men announce their desire for her, after which she gets to decide what she wants to do with it; accept, reject, exploit, use for gist with the girls or enjoy the ego boost
So when a man chooses to not announce his desire, it becomes a big problem for her. Not because she wants him, but because she needs to know that he wants her.
HER SELF ESTEEM DEPENDS *ENTIRELY* ON THE KNOWLEDGE THAT MEN WANT HER.
So a man who refuses to make that knowledge available to her is essentially threatening her peace of mind.
That is the part she does not and cannot say out loud, but that I am helping her with because I am the voice of the voiceless.
Hence when you look beyond the moralising, faux concern for men and red pill dig, you will realise this is a cry for help
"Why won't you confess your feelings for me - feelings that I do not share and will not reciprocate, but feelings that I need to hear nonetheless to prop up my self esteem, feel desirable, and gain leverage to extract money, time, concessions and favours from you?"
If they ask this young woman, how she was reciprocating love - she'll tell you "she's seeing how it goes".
It's not like you're showing him that you want him but you want him to be performing like a cage monkey.
Your colleague was crashing out this morning. You're next. 😂
Tried this and it ended up being a waste of effort. I can tell you that it’s better to see signs that she likes you before showing her how badly you want her. She has to reciprocate; otherwise, it’s better to keep things minimal. I promise you, it’s not worth it.
Some men are fighting for their lives not to show a woman how badly they want her, then turn around and claim red-pill content hasn’t affected them.
They’d rather masturbate or patronize coded prostitutes than risk looking like a man who actually desires a woman.
The other day, one told me he intentionally doesn’t reach out to me because he doesn’t want to look desperate. Apparently, he is proving that he knows his worth.
Imagine being so afraid of looking like you want a woman that you’d rather suppress your own desire just to maintain some imaginary upper hand.