Humans tend to explain other people’s behavior by their character, but explain our own behavior by our circumstances.
For instance,
Someone cuts you off in traffic:
Your thought is: “This person is rude.”
You cut someone off:
Your thought: “Sorry, I didn’t see them.”
Someone replies late:
Your thought: “They don’t respect me.”
You reply late:
Your thought: I’ve been busy all day
We naturally give ourselves context, but deny that same context to others.
A lot of unnecessary anger comes from assuming intentions when we only see actions.
@wtffolly_ One time my phone lost, I was calling the thief, begging him to return it. The motherfuvker was using me to play on phone saying wrong number 🥹
My sister had a baby while still living at home, and my dad was so mad.
At the time he owned a power saw, so every night around 1 a.m he'd start it outside the house just to wake the baby up. 🤣🤣
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
Some people never get 500 verified followers yet,but when you follow them, you still remind them to follow you back,you want to pay yourself for here abi
And it was also on this app that my friend told me to escort him to a friend of his that was opening his new house he built at Akobo. We got to the place, I see big boy with escorts wearing suits following him around, multimillion Naira Mansion. Fortunately, the guy sabi me for X, treated us really special con still dey beg me make I follow back. I carry my phone give am say make he follow himself back then I notice say baba no even dey verified…. I’ve gotten multiple nice financial connections from him after that day. It’s just plain st00p!d to look down on any account 😭😂
If I am your mutual even though I don't fuxk with your tweets I will just like and RT but you see all of una na to just scroll pass my posts, smh.
When I start no complain oo!!!