i ain’t the same person you remember, Im a creature of purity and sin. Riddled with scars and perfections. Love me for all that im not, n forget all that i am
we can often over-explain or 'not let something go' because we are so often misunderstood and want to eliminate any chance of that happening again. it's frequently a trauma response stemming from chronic ridicule and punishment after being misinterpreted.
neurodivergents often feel the need to clarify things hours/days after they said it because we grew up being constantly misunderstood & getting in trouble for miswording or being too blunt & can't stand the thought of people misunderstanding what we actually mean.
Not a single person has tried to fight for me to stay in their life but yet I’ve fought for every single person i lost…
I owe myself the biggest apology ever