let your final act of love be the silence that they always wanted. no more begging for their time, replies or effort. step back and let them feel the space where your love used to be. and you, heal.
It's heartbreaking how many women have to walk away from men they genuinely love because love alone can't make up for a lack of emotional maturity, accountability or healthy communication.
Right now life teaching me detachment. Nothing’s really mine. People come and go. Moments pass. Love shifts. It’s all temporary. I’m learning to enjoy things without gripping them too tight. To accept when energy changes. To let go when it’s time.
nosy as i am, i dont care to know too much about a partner's past. my only non negotiable is that i never want to be in a room where i know less about a situation than anyone else there
I saw a girl say “if she has to ask for flowers she doesn’t want them anymore” but that really goes for everything whether it be love, attention or appreciation. Because it’s no longer coming from you it’s coming from me.
Nothing will ruin a relationship for me faster than watching your partner showing up for other people in a way they don't show up for you. You have capacity, just not for our relationship? No thanks. Goes for friendship, too!
When people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There’s actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
people lack accountability, then be like "you could've just talked to me". no, i couldn't. you don't listen. you deflect. you gaslight. you make me feel like i'm the problem for bringing it up. so no, i stayed silent to protect my peace, not because I didn't want to fix.
Took me a while but I realized what triggers my toxicity. It's DISRESPECT! I can be cool, the life of the party, I can get a long with everybody all day and night but the one thing that destroys my internal peace is being disrespected. I know I'm a good woman.I know I'm too nice, too cool, and way to sweet so when I'm disrespected my mouth is lethal because what you put in is what you get outta me .. However I'm working on that.
Know your triggers and stay away from the people, places, or things that bring them to the forefront.
Please date emotionally intelligent men. it's nice to have someone who's aware of your sensitivity & learns to handle your feelings gently, with patience and care. it is comforting to show your vulnerability to someone & have them learn how to respond to it with understanding >>
No one talks about how painful it is when life slowly forces you to believe that maybe the happy home, the supportive partner, the one family unit... just wasn't meant for you.
Even when you have a good heart, pure intentions, and so much love to give - you still get the short end of the stick in love. Sometimes the pain isn't losing someone - it's realising you never got the life you were willing to give everything for.