OJ

I write about Relationships, Frame and Social Dynamics.

[OJ @theojframe]

Most men lose women for one reason.

They lose themselves first.

Frame is not confidence or money.

Frame is sovereignty.

I write about power, attraction, and social dynamics without moral fluff.

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[OJ @theojframe]

@Wizarab10 Bro is literally asking if it is wrong to be upset.

Lol

It’s not wrong bro.

The only wrong thing is being with that woman

[OJ @theojframe]

@Wizarab10 Yeah bro.

She was tired of pretending to be sorry and disgusted by the fact you couldn’t take the memo

[OJ @theojframe]

@iamChinedu001 Worry and neglect are not the same thing.

Most marriages can’t work.

Why?

Because sex starts to feel like a chore.

Yeah.

So spice things up

[OJ @theojframe]

@KUNO_BOT Interesting.

This is the idea of passing judgement.

[KUNO_BOT @KUNO_BOT]

→ Pull and Push

People are walking contradictions. Offer them both of their own sides and let them choose where they land.

— I can't tell if you're forty or fourteen.

— You have the face of an angel and the smile of the devil.

— You look like an asshole with a good heart.

[OJ @theojframe]

@ScumBag3yur You can definitely look at it the way but look deeper.

It’s not about the girl.

It’s about you.

[OJ @theojframe]

I head out to get groceries.

I spot a tall girl walking with her friends.

She’s elegant.

Ok, I am interested.

What to do?

She’s taller than me.

Ok, what’s with me and being interested in tall girls ?

No clue.

I am thirsty so I buy water then proceed on my journey.

She’s still in my sight.

I assess her, myself, logistics and environment.

Completely out of alignment.

Especially myself.

I had a feeling I would be outcome dependent.

She doesn’t look like the typical girl I see on campus.

And to me?

That was already a losing game.

“Trying to get something out of her”

After all,

Forcing outcomes is not ideal in the interaction.

I passed her and her friends.

Onwards to my destination.

Groceries.

[OJ @theojframe]

Stop thinking of how to get her.

Start thinking of who you want to be in the interaction.

[OJ @theojframe]

It just depends on the natural flow of things.

For me,

I usually don’t collect contacts.

Just small talk to see how it goes.

That particular scenario with the tall girl was just me knowing fully well that I wanted to get something out of it.

I had to let it go because I wasn’t being true to myself and it’s fine letting the opportunity for the approach go.

[OJ @theojframe]

@cknze1 He already is.

[OJ @theojframe]

@JackNapierNot Social Engineering.

A feature not a bug

[OJ @theojframe]

@jon_d_doe This is it.

Men go the extra mile for validation from women.

Women go the extra mile for validation from men.

We mostly do things for the opposite sex.

[OJ @theojframe]

@karanlikprspktf @codedbruhh Whatever you do.

Don’t take this blackpill

[Gandy @thisgandy]

Misogyny is merely evidence of insufficient understanding of feminine nature or a failure in one’s capacity to truly love a woman. In either case, it represents a shortcoming on your part as a man, not a trait of proper masculinity.

[OJ @theojframe]

Stop thinking of how to get her.

Start thinking of who you want to be in the interaction.

[OJ @theojframe]

@iamChinedu001 @onyeka_chii Damn.

@FWPlayboy was right.

Some men just love the idea of marriage

[OJ @theojframe]

@NewEraTruss10 Yeah bro.

We go again today

[OJ @theojframe]

Went to see a girl, took her for a walk.

Shocked to see the number of people on campus.

My social energy was buzzing.

I dropped the girl off.

Five minutes on my walk back.

I open a girl that just crossed to the side of the road.

Had her talk for like 15 minutes.

Got her number.

Now I am supposed to see another girl in 20 minutes.

I will probably open another girl or two within that timeframe.

[OJ @theojframe]

A couple of social events to attend on campus, but my mood and IRL work deadlines preventing me from doing that

[OJ @theojframe]

@Kellumsantana @guzu_p 😂😂

[OJ @theojframe]

@SantyVibes_ Standing out and being authentic is the way.

Women feel it

[Santy Vibes @SantyVibes_]

When she gives such green light men tend to over invest and mess it up..

A girl was giving me green light few days ago but in knew if I pushed so hard for sex I would lose her so quickly.. like you said I had to build a structure. I’m waiting to see how it plays.. but I guess it won’t be long.