Umwaka ushize nagiranye ikiganiro kuri IGIHE n’uyu musore [undi ibumoso], icyo gihe yashakishaga umuryango we cyane ko yari yaratoraguwe n’abagiraneza muri Jenoside afite amezi ane bivuze ko atari azi se, nyina cyangwa abandi b’aho akomoka.
Lately, i have become very cautious about attending weddings. Last year, three couples i knew got married, and i happily attended all their ceremonies, fully dressed and ready to celebrate with them. This week, i was shocked to learn that all three marriages have already ended in divorce. It really made me pause and think.
More than 500 people attended those weddings. If each ceremony lasted about eight hours, that means around 12,000 hours of people’s time went into celebrating unions that did not even last a year and then there is the money. Each wedding reportedly cost as much as building a five bedroom house. When you put it that way, it feels painful to think about how much was spent and how little remained.
It makes me wonder, are people marrying people they barely know? Are we rushing into marriage without truly understanding each other’s values, character, and how we handle conflict? When i think about our grandparents and our parents, their marriages were not perfect. They struggled, they argued and life was hard. It was never a bed of roses. But they stayed, they tried and they raised families.
Today, we are seeing more single parents and more children growing up between two homes. Some children can only meet one parent at the gate because the other is not allowed inside. These are not just personal stories. They shape the kind of society we are becoming.
If we keep quiet about this, we risk raising a generation that is emotionally broken. We need to talk honestly about marriage, about preparation, about patience, and about what commitment really means. Otherwise, we will keep celebrating beautiful weddings while quietly ignoring the heartbreak that follows. #Society
20 years ago, i left my country, my culture, my food, and family to embark on a journey that started with the release of my very first body of music! So many of you were a part of my life and career since the very beginning, and some of you have joined the adventure along the way. I’m forever grateful to all of you. Each of you played a very crucial role in where this journey has taken me thus far!
I just wanted to take this moment to say thank you! Thank you for the greatest first 20 years ever! 20 years of the most loyal, die-hard fans that don’t play about me whatsoever, 20 years of hard work and hardworking teams around me, 20 years of lessons, 20 years of unforgettable experiences and accomplishments, 20 years of my family being my number one support system, and to all the people who said yes to me and gave me a chance before it was “cool” to (Execs, DJ’s, writers, producers, dancers, choreographers, directors, fashion designers, photographers, glam, journalists, brands, mentors, etc etc) 20 years worth of thanks to you!! I thank God, He’s been very generous to me and the Glory belongs to Him! #R20 🙏🏿⚓️
Good afternoon @zubamutesi …How many likes and retweets would it take for me to earn a visit to your studio while you’re on air?😌I’m genuinely interested in seeing how things work behind the scenes in a radio studio!